How Does Swagger Define Youth?
This right here is my ___________. You can probably guess the next word in this sentence. If not, you probably haven’t listened to the radio much lately (I don’t blame you if you haven’t). If you haven’t guessed the word let me give you a hint. It isn’t the oversized, gaudy chain dangling from your neck. It isn’t your custom Louis Vuitton suede shoes either. It definitely isn’t your smooth stroll you put on when you walk into the club. Your time is up….the word is swag. “Manners + Style+ Confidence= Swagger”-Fonzworth Bentley. This past weekend I had the unique opportunity to learn about swagger. No, not the “hop up out the bed kind”. I learned how swagger could empower young people and change lives. Unless, you’ve been living under a rock for the past year, you would know that we are living in the age of swag. Everyone claims to have it, however most people really have no idea what it means. Let me explain swag through my weekend.
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This past Friday through Sunday I had the amazing opportunity of emceeing The Greatness Beyond Measure (GBM) Summit. The GBM Summit is a three-day conference held in Sarasota, Florida designed to foster growth, creativity, and self-empowerment in young people. This year’s conference featured a gang of talented youth from all over Florida. Young musicians, thespians, dancers, and debaters surrounded me. As the Chair Emeritus and emcee of the conference I was charged with the task of making sure each program ran smoothly from start to finish. I thought it meant just keeping the crowd engaged and not deviating from the program. I was quite wrong.
On Friday I listened to saxophone prodigy B.K. Jackson wow an audience with his phenomenal ability. Later I saw an 8 year old eerily emulate Michael Jackson to a tee. He definitely gave Chris Brown a run for his money. This was only the kick- off event. Later that night I hosted GBM’s Teen Idol with special celebrity guest judge Fonzworth Bentley. This Cool Outrageous Lover Of Uniquely Raw Style educated and entertained the crowd. He talked about his passion for fashion, career, and outlook on entrepreneurship. He challenged all the young people to look at themselves as C.E.O.’s. As I stood by Bentley I felt underdressed yet empowered. Bentley, a Morehouse grad, had clawed his way up in the entertainment industry through stick-to-itiveness, charisma, and sound values. As he talked to the crowd about, “Advancing Their Swagger”, he sounded less like a hungry car salesman trying to promote his book, and more like a concerned community member looking to expose youth to lessons about etiquette and fashion. He took the obscure term swagger and gave it real meaning when he broke it down into three component parts: manners, confidence, and style.
The next day I got a chance to ask Cey Adams, one of the most influential graphic design artists in hip-hop about his career. Adams originally started in New York as a graffiti artists but turned his passion for painting other people’s property into desgining logos and album covers for Public Enemy, Jay-Z, and Mary J. Blige just to say a few. He gave youth positive reinforcement about not just chasing dreams, but actively pursuing them with a clear goal in sight.
I was honored and humbled to be around so many amazingly talented young people. The GBM teen summit enriched the lives of hundreds of youth and gave them a real definition of swagger.
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLv4IHfCaKk
WOW, did we not have an awesome life changing experience this weekend or what? Everything that you typed above was accurate and on point. Fonzworth Bentley by far showed us all how to dress, walk, talk, smile, be polite, fun, and mannerable; while making it all look “cool.” I would love for him to come back again next year. I feel this is what’s needed in every community around the world. Many claim to have “Swagger” yet many do not possess the full attributes in maintaining.
As you can see by my name on this blog comment that Fonzworth Bentley (Derek Watkins) left an impressionable mark on my life. Many were bumed down and upset that we were not able to have the lovely Ms. Fantasia Barrino come due to technical issues but I must say those bumes soon became CEOs thanks to Mr Cool Outrageous Lover Of Uniquely Raw Style! Instantly pushing us all to accept who we are, love ourselves, and to be and do the best that we can.
Now, as I end this long comment (laughing out loud),much loves goes out to you Mr. Edward James III. You graced this year’s summit with style, precision, and style. Thanks for offering up your “swagg” to everyone. By far the best Chair Emeritus and emcee ever! Thanks and I can not wait till next year!!!
WOW, did we not have an awesome life changing experience this weekend or what? Everything that you typed above was accurate and on point. Fonzworth Bentley by far showed us all how to dress, walk, talk, smile, be polite, fun, and mannerable; while making it all look “cool.” I would love for him to come back again next year. I feel this is what’s needed in every community around the world. Many claim to have “Swagger” yet many do not possess the full attributes in maintaining.
As you can see by my name on this blog comment that Fonzworth Bentley (Derek Watkins) left an impressionable mark on my life. Many were bumed down and upset that we were not able to have the lovely Ms. Fantasia Barrino come due to technical issues but I must say those bumes soon became CEOs thanks to Mr Cool Outrageous Lover Of Uniquely Raw Style! Instantly pushing us all to accept who we are, love ourselves, and to be and do the best that we can.
Now, as I end this long comment (laughing out loud),much loves goes out to you Mr. Edward James III. You graced this year’s summit with style, precision, and style. Thanks for offering up your “swagg” to everyone. By far the best Chair Emeritus and emcee ever! Thanks and I can not wait till next year!!!
ED, it’s extremely encouraging to know that you’ve been able to capture the true essence of this year’s GREATNESS BEYOND MEASURE Teen Summit 10′. I can only pray that the hundreds of other young adults and teen attending were also empowered for Life, by this weekend’s GBM Summit experience.
Peace & Favor
Melanie
ED, it’s extremely encouraging to know that you’ve been able to capture the true essence of this year’s GREATNESS BEYOND MEASURE Teen Summit 10′. I can only pray that the hundreds of other young adults and teen attending were also empowered for Life, by this weekend’s GBM Summit experience.
Peace & Favor
Melanie
It appears that Sarasota is ahead of other cities in Florida and around the country with quality programs for our young people.
It appears that Sarasota is ahead of other cities in Florida and around the country with quality programs for our young people.
Every year after the GBM Teen Summit, I leave feeling like I did when I was a little girl coming home from summer camp. I sincerely appreciate the hard work and planning that goes into making the summit a success every year, and I believe that the kids of Sarasota (especially in the Newtown area) who have the opportunity to participate benefit substantially from the positive, nurturing environment created for them. I wish that there was something like that around when I was younger.
Mr. Bentley did those kids a great favor by exemplifying the qualities he discusses in his book. I believe in his mission to educate America on the true definition of “swagger” by taking a word that we already know and recreating our concept of it. I think that he is a wonderful role model, especially for young men- more especially for those who love hip hop. He is cool. He is a modern gentleman.
GBM is a great asset to our community. I hope that it continues to grow in success and attendance. These kids think that they are signing up for a fun weekend, but they are actually coming to receive invaluable input and advice on their futures. Ideas are sown in their hearts while they are young, so they can be successful, professional, polite, empowered movers and shakers of the future
Every year after the GBM Teen Summit, I leave feeling like I did when I was a little girl coming home from summer camp. I sincerely appreciate the hard work and planning that goes into making the summit a success every year, and I believe that the kids of Sarasota (especially in the Newtown area) who have the opportunity to participate benefit substantially from the positive, nurturing environment created for them. I wish that there was something like that around when I was younger.
Mr. Bentley did those kids a great favor by exemplifying the qualities he discusses in his book. I believe in his mission to educate America on the true definition of “swagger” by taking a word that we already know and recreating our concept of it. I think that he is a wonderful role model, especially for young men- more especially for those who love hip hop. He is cool. He is a modern gentleman.
GBM is a great asset to our community. I hope that it continues to grow in success and attendance. These kids think that they are signing up for a fun weekend, but they are actually coming to receive invaluable input and advice on their futures. Ideas are sown in their hearts while they are young, so they can be successful, professional, polite, empowered movers and shakers of the future
Lil Bro.,
On point with your comments about Teen Summit. I am hoping all of our youth received what you received.
As a man who believes he has “Swag” as Fonzworth describes it. I was able to pull something out of this past weekend to take my “Swag” to the next level.
Big Bro. T,
Lil Bro.,
On point with your comments about Teen Summit. I am hoping all of our youth received what you received.
As a man who believes he has “Swag” as Fonzworth describes it. I was able to pull something out of this past weekend to take my “Swag” to the next level.
Big Bro. T,
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