Upgrade U: What We Can Learn From Beyonce
Beyonce’s Thanksgiving special airs this week, and I know there are plenty of folks hating. Had I not seen the light, I would’ve been one of them. A few weeks ago, I was checking my Facebook account, and a friend’s status message read that she intended to write a negative (feminist) critique of Beyonce. Of course there were the co-signers with their expected “This is so necessary; can’t wait to read it,” responses. Whatever. These people probably bowl with bumpers in the gutters, and celebrate when they roll a strike. Either exercise is about as difficult as convincing a 4-year-old that there are monsters in the closet. The implicit position, the crux of “Beyonce makes feminists nauseous,” argument, I imagine, might be described as something about Beyonce failing to meet certain expectations–her apparent lack of depth, her music, her relationship to men, her skin tone in those makeup ads. Such critiques are ironically similar to a Tyler Perry movie: you’ve seen the tropes before and you how that it’s going to end.
I think some folks hate (on) Beyonce for expecting her to be what/who she isn’t. Face it: Beyonce is not going to burn her glittery leotard for anybody, any movement. And being upset about that is probably equivalent to getting mad at the above mentioned 4-year-old for wetting her bed because of the nightmare she had about the boogieman trying on her Dora shirt. Granted, I used to be slightly annoyed by her presence, but with the help of God, my sister (who once held me hostage in a hotel room until she’d shown me that she knew all of Beyonce’s choreography), and watching the “Video Phone” video eight times in a row last week, I’m proud to say that I am an occasional citizen of the Beyonce Nation. I bow at the stilettos of Sasha Fierce.
I have come to appreciate Beyonce. She’s featured prominently on my work out mix. (Admittedly, I should probably re-evaluate that. Beyonce makes me run too fast. Half way through, I can barely Naomi Campbell walk.) And that’s all I expect from Beyonce: some mindless jams to keep me from counting city blocks. Put simply: Beyonce is awesome because she does her damn job. And she does it well. She has read the job description for diva and worked it.
Are she and that wind machine blowing her horsehair all over the stage unnecessary and annoying? Hell yes. Did all those summers spent out on the family deck practicing dance moves preclude the cultivation of the intellectual acumen we like to see in our sheroes, thereby making watching her interviews more excruciating than a root canal? Of course. But that’s what a diva, a pop star does: she annoys you, but you just can’t stop watching. Beyonce is exactly who we should expect her to be. Beyonce looked at the diva requirements and said emphatically, “I will do that.”
Let’s consider it: She is beautiful. Anyone who says otherwise is a downright hater. As my friend Rachel says, “Ain’t a mark on her.” Indeed, she is flawless in the Western sense of the word. She was the breakout star of a girl group. She later shook Kelly (who?) and Michelle (who?) in exchange for a more lucrative solo career. She’s known by one name; even her social security card just says Beyonce. That’s right. No last name. No nine digit number. Just Beyonce. She’s married to Jay-Z, arguably the slickest dude in the game, and if that doesn’t work out, the only other guy she could even think about dating probably owns an island and the copyright to the word the. Even the Amish are aware of her alter ego. According to my sister, she puts on a show. If I had money to waste on omniracial superstars, I’d go see a Beyonce show, because I’m sure I’d be thoroughly entertained. She acts terribly in terrible films. When she speaks, she says unimaginative things, seemingly able to only describe things as “amazing” and “incredible.” The kids love her–and if you’re not a gay icon, if there isn’t a drag queen at The Baton or somewhere else lip-syncing to your songs, you are not a diva. The aforementioned wind machine? Charge it to the game. That’s just part of the diva kit, y’all.
All of this to say that Beyonce can check off every item on the diva checklist with enthusiasm. She’s a pop star. I for one expect her to act like one. A friend of mine emailed me a critique of the “Video Phone” video. The writer didn’t appreciate the blank backgrounds and booty shaking. Why was he watching a Beyonce video? I’m not sure. That’s like going to a gentlemen’s club, and being disappointed that the strippers took off their clothes.
I paraphrase a friend’s boyfriend: Beyonce is excellent in her field. And that field doesn’t require anything beyond plasticity. She is portrayed as empty and vacuous because we couldn’t project things upon her if she were actually substantive. When I want substance, I change the channel. I don’t sit staring at Beyonce waiting to be empowered or enlightened. I sit there in awe of the fact that she just did what she did in 4-inch heels. If I anticipated something different it would be my own fault. Do I wish the criteria for pop icon were different? Absolutely. Until that happens I’m not going expect Beyonce to act differently. I’m going to praise her for being the apotheosis of diva.
Can you imagine a world where people did their work as well as Beyonce did hers? There would be no wars, and I’d have a job. Ask yourself: Have you done your job as well as Beyonce has? That’s what I thought. Now go get something done. Sasha is working, and working hard. Why aren’t you?
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Do you still doubt her greatness?
For the most part, I’ve never really cared about Beyonce one way or another. She recently got my attention though by her slutty dance moves and dress. This bothers me because she’s a role model, as Mrs. Obama said, for so many girls, and she’s going to bring many down to her level.
For the most part, I’ve never really cared about Beyonce one way or another. She recently got my attention though by her slutty dance moves and dress. This bothers me because she’s a role model, as Mrs. Obama said, for so many girls, and she’s going to bring many down to her level.
I posted a note on the ten, maybe more, songs of Beyonce’s that i love. I have also posted numerous notes on how annoying she is. And close to a year ago, i had a retirement party for the (what i call) “tacky mechanical hand thingy wearer” vowing to end the violence/hate on Beyonce. Although i am catching up on your posts and agree with you (so far) 89.17% of the time on social and pop issues, this post has prompted me to semi-come out of retirement.
I do not hate beyonce for dumping her band mates. In fact, they technically werent dumped as i’m certain that they knew since they were children that they were really just props because girl groups generally sell well and most times better than solo acts. She played her hand well and got rid of them. That’s a business move; cant be too mad at her for it. The bad hair, bad costumes, bad lyrics, bad clothing line, bad diction, bad etc etc etc, dont bother me either. I’ve come to realize that strangely enough, mediocrity sells at a mass level while genius is reserved and appreciated by the few. Again, i do have a list of B songs that i just love and will sing until i’ve inadvertently ejected everyone from the car. This is my problem with Bey…better yet, i can frame it better by explaining why i like Rihanna over Beyonce and you touched on it a bit.
Rihanna is like Forever 21. When a store has a “no return policy” you know you’re getting crap, hence the store knows they’re selling crap. The clothes are trendy and the strings come out if you poot hard enough. But the shit is cheap. Those folks are clearly running a volume business and raking in the dough. That’s how i see Rihanna. Although she’s attractive, she has no talent. What make her magnanimous is the fact that she knows she has no talent. She’s not trying to be what she’s not. She’s just having fun and getting paid handsomely for it is, in my view, incidental. Rihanna is Forever 21.
Beyonce on the other hand actually thinks her shit is quality shit when it’s in fact, Forever 21. It’s fun and it’s trendy, but it aint no John Blaze shit. “I want to be an icon.” etc etc etc. I beg her pardon! If you have to solicit “icon” status, i’m sorry, you’re not worthy of it. If she would just relax, have fun with what she does, and not overestimate her abilities, i would respect her more. The public (or the stans, as theyre called) have deified the girl which only further distorts her perception of how awesome she is.
That’s all i have to say about it.
I posted a note on the ten, maybe more, songs of Beyonce’s that i love. I have also posted numerous notes on how annoying she is. And close to a year ago, i had a retirement party for the (what i call) “tacky mechanical hand thingy wearer” vowing to end the violence/hate on Beyonce. Although i am catching up on your posts and agree with you (so far) 89.17% of the time on social and pop issues, this post has prompted me to semi-come out of retirement.
I do not hate beyonce for dumping her band mates. In fact, they technically werent dumped as i’m certain that they knew since they were children that they were really just props because girl groups generally sell well and most times better than solo acts. She played her hand well and got rid of them. That’s a business move; cant be too mad at her for it. The bad hair, bad costumes, bad lyrics, bad clothing line, bad diction, bad etc etc etc, dont bother me either. I’ve come to realize that strangely enough, mediocrity sells at a mass level while genius is reserved and appreciated by the few. Again, i do have a list of B songs that i just love and will sing until i’ve inadvertently ejected everyone from the car. This is my problem with Bey…better yet, i can frame it better by explaining why i like Rihanna over Beyonce and you touched on it a bit.
Rihanna is like Forever 21. When a store has a “no return policy” you know you’re getting crap, hence the store knows they’re selling crap. The clothes are trendy and the strings come out if you poot hard enough. But the shit is cheap. Those folks are clearly running a volume business and raking in the dough. That’s how i see Rihanna. Although she’s attractive, she has no talent. What make her magnanimous is the fact that she knows she has no talent. She’s not trying to be what she’s not. She’s just having fun and getting paid handsomely for it is, in my view, incidental. Rihanna is Forever 21.
Beyonce on the other hand actually thinks her shit is quality shit when it’s in fact, Forever 21. It’s fun and it’s trendy, but it aint no John Blaze shit. “I want to be an icon.” etc etc etc. I beg her pardon! If you have to solicit “icon” status, i’m sorry, you’re not worthy of it. If she would just relax, have fun with what she does, and not overestimate her abilities, i would respect her more. The public (or the stans, as theyre called) have deified the girl which only further distorts her perception of how awesome she is.
That’s all i have to say about it.
sorry, my comment is almost as long as your post.
(it’s been a while)
I’ll be more respectful in the future.
lol
sorry, my comment is almost as long as your post.
(it’s been a while)
I’ll be more respectful in the future.
lol
@the black bot: i take issue with your use of the term slutty. further, if young girls are brought down to a particular level, i imagine that it has much less to do with beyonce specifically, or women in generally, but rather the patriarchal structure that teaches them not to value themselves.
@tolue: it’s all good. i like long comments. i like your forever 21 analogy. i’d say that beyonce isn’t crap, though. she makes pretty good, mindless, terrible pop music. and she can really dance. i think she’s kind of talented. is she the best singer and dance out there? no, but she’s a pretty great pop star.
thanks for reading!
@the black bot: i take issue with your use of the term slutty. further, if young girls are brought down to a particular level, i imagine that it has much less to do with beyonce specifically, or women in generally, but rather the patriarchal structure that teaches them not to value themselves.
@tolue: it’s all good. i like long comments. i like your forever 21 analogy. i’d say that beyonce isn’t crap, though. she makes pretty good, mindless, terrible pop music. and she can really dance. i think she’s kind of talented. is she the best singer and dance out there? no, but she’s a pretty great pop star.
thanks for reading!
pretty good pop star? Agreed! I do agree that her work ethic is to be commended and she’s managed to generate a cult following to her craft. That does take some level of genius. And you’re right, no, she’s not crap. i just got carried away in the analogy cause lord knows i love my forever 21 and if somebody tried to call me out on it, i’d swear up and down that it was zara, which is just * that much better. lol.
pretty good pop star? Agreed! I do agree that her work ethic is to be commended and she’s managed to generate a cult following to her craft. That does take some level of genius. And you’re right, no, she’s not crap. i just got carried away in the analogy cause lord knows i love my forever 21 and if somebody tried to call me out on it, i’d swear up and down that it was zara, which is just * that much better. lol.
Have to say I am a huge Beyonce fan and also identify as a feminist (take that however you will). I recognize the problems many have with her- but I do think she makes an effort to empower women in her music, and does stress independence to an extent. In an interview with Oprah she stated that she “didn’t want to be a wife without her own life” or somethinglike that- which I liked. Even when she’s overtly sexual, I feel like she owns it. And I can’t tell you how many times listening to Diva or Irreplaceable makes me feel confident. I have to admit I went to see her last April, it cost me an arm and a leg, but it was the best performance I’ve ever seen. I know there are glaring issues I can’t ignore, but she makes me feel strong inside and motivates me to work harder, strangely enough- I think it’s because I can see what a force she is in the music industry- especially after watching her live, there is no denying she’s working hard for the money. It’s weird how much of an effect she has on me! So I appreciated your article, it’s a different take on her.. and I hate sheepishly admitting I love her and then calling myself a feminist when the two seem incompatible- glad to know there are others who appreciate her!
Have to say I am a huge Beyonce fan and also identify as a feminist (take that however you will). I recognize the problems many have with her- but I do think she makes an effort to empower women in her music, and does stress independence to an extent. In an interview with Oprah she stated that she “didn’t want to be a wife without her own life” or somethinglike that- which I liked. Even when she’s overtly sexual, I feel like she owns it. And I can’t tell you how many times listening to Diva or Irreplaceable makes me feel confident. I have to admit I went to see her last April, it cost me an arm and a leg, but it was the best performance I’ve ever seen. I know there are glaring issues I can’t ignore, but she makes me feel strong inside and motivates me to work harder, strangely enough- I think it’s because I can see what a force she is in the music industry- especially after watching her live, there is no denying she’s working hard for the money. It’s weird how much of an effect she has on me! So I appreciated your article, it’s a different take on her.. and I hate sheepishly admitting I love her and then calling myself a feminist when the two seem incompatible- glad to know there are others who appreciate her!