I didn’t laugh at the video of white girls getting black dolls
There is something particularly disturbing about racism in children. A recent video of two little White girls receiving Black baby dolls for Christmas shows how disturbing it can be to watch in action.
The viral video shows an older White girl named Rainey (sp?) and her sister Reagan opening a package from “Uncle Seth” and “Aunt Cynthia.” They seem excited at first. But, once Rainey sees that there are two Black dolls inside, her demeanor changes. When asked if she likes her’s by the camera person (who seems to be the mother of both girls), she nods but is clearly uneasy about the gift. In contrast, Reagan, becomes visibly upset and then starts crying loudly. The camera person and others in the room then burst into laughter.
Salon has noted that the video hearkens back to a 1940s experiment by Kenneth and Mamie Clark. In the experiment, the researchers asked Black children to pick which dolls they would like to play with. Sixty-three percent of children chose the White one. Most of the children thought the White doll was prettier. And, forty-four percent said the White doll looked most like them. But, that project tested Black children. The racial hatred from White children is rarely seen this vividly.
As a mother of Black children, I have experienced White children patting my son’s hair and describing the texture as “like a sheep.” I have also had to contend with kids telling my children they were “dirty” because they were “brown.” Even with those experiences, seeing the disgust on these little girls’ faces left me speechless. But, the reaction from the video’s camera person is probably the worst part of this clip.
After a few watches, I realized that this cruel escapade wasn’t a gift giving exercise. Rather, it was a trick to capture the racial hatred that the onlookers behind the camera knew already existed. It’s kind of like when a parent tries to capture their kid’s first steps but they inevitably get the second ones. This was a reenactment. Or, it was at least videotaped because the adults involved knew these little girls weren’t particularly keen on blackness. For this experiment to even work, they had to know that the reaction would be obnoxious or at least surprising.
Anyone who sees the footage and thinks it is as straight-forward as the girls having preferences for different color dolls is missing a larger issue here. These young girls have been conditioned to see blackness as foreign or even upsetting. The fact that these dolls were props in this experiment is evidence that these little girls probably don’t own any dolls who don’t look like them. Rather than champion diversity of beauty, the adults in these young children’s lives have made their racial hatred a source of fodder. For them, it isn’t something to be corrected. It’s something to be laughed at.
I’m not sure who Uncle Seth and Aunt Cynthia are but this video is cruel. Seeing one child cry because she was gifted with a toy my child would gush over wasn’t entertaining to me at all. I guess it’s hard to get the joke when it relies on your oppression.
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My twins each had one baby doll they were given as tiny tots. One had a light flesh colored doll. One had a dark flesh colored doll. We had lots of medical bills from the twins premature birth so we could not afford new dolls if we had wanted to. These dolls were passed down from my sister and I. There was never any issue with either of the girls regarding the dolls. BTW, my husband an I are a “bi-racial”( I hate that term) couple. DH is Native American, i am of European descent. the girls have cousins that are of Asian descent, African descent and European descent. Maybe they were as oblivious to race when they were children as i was. I know thye are hyper aware as adults…due to some issue with minority scholarships in college, Nevertheless what a cruel thing to do to children and how awful to post on social media.
Sarah Lynn Tuttle, who shot the video and taught these children to hate, requested it be removed.
That’s her you hear (would have heard) laughing in the video.
The video has been replaced.
In my childhood the only toys I remember envying my sister were her twin baby dolls – one black, one white. This was in England in the early 1960s in part of the country where seeing a black person was an extreme rarity. I don’t know why I loved those dolls so much but when I had children they had dolls of all colours. Incidentally I and my children are white.
Interesting reaction for sure. I’m familiar with the 1940s experiment and that honestly surprised me a bit when I learned of the results. I can understand children wanting a doll that looks a bit more like them in terms of skin color to play make believe, but I’m not entirely sure what the purpose of the video was. It would have been a good opportunity for a discussion. As for kids asking unusual questions — well, that’s what kids do. They are learning all about the world from scratch. At least they are mostly honest about it, and every unusual question they ask is an opportunity to educate. One of my favorite white house photos is the little boy in the oval office asking to feel Obama’s hair (the other ones are the spider man photo and the little girl throwing a tantrum on the floor–really some great photos!)
I am a German and I grew up in the 1970s and 80s. I had a black doll as a child and I called her Patricia. It was my most favorite doll and the only one I can remember how she looked like and what I named her.
It’s pretty obvious that video was made as a joke to show off racial hatred. But as for the colour of the dolls, my niece is white and 2 and when she was allowed to choose a toy in the shop, she chose a black doll and loves that doll to pieces. I’ve seen black children chose white dolls over black dolls and vice versa.
Sorry Karen, I can’t bring myself to call this video a joke it’s so appalling to me. It was done to be “funny” I guess. It is a great demonstration of casual racism in the USA today. I am guilty of it myself and only even aware of this when my kids pointed out certain comments or attitudes that I had no awareness I was even saying I’d said them so often. And therein lies the problem of race in the usa today.
Too bad for Sarah Lynn who didn’t realize that once it’s out there on the net it’s out there for good…
Sorry Yanah, I didn’t mean a joke as in it was funny, but as a joke because it couldn’t possibly taken seriously as a natural reaction to a situation the mother had no idea was going to happen. At first I thought the older girl just didn’t really like the present, my little girl reacted like that when she got a soft dog as she had thought it was going to be a real live dog! But when the younger girl started crying and carrying on the way she did, and the fact that the mother didn’t even ask her why she was crying, demonstrated that it was clearly a set up to make a video mocking black people. No wonder the mother wanted it removed, she obviously hadn’t realised how many people would be able to see her for what she is!
My daughter got a coloured dill go Christmas and I don’t think she’s even noticed that it isn’t the same colour as her! I think it’s all about the as you bring them up. Children are not born racist.
Please forgive me if this is an ignorant comment; I’m really just looking for some more explanation. I don’t understand; how do we know this isn’t the first time the girls opened this gift? How do we know the girls don’t like them because of the color? What if they’d asked for some other kind of doll but their aunt and uncle gave them these, and they were just upset because it wasn’t the kind they’d wanted? I suppose the mom (or whoever is filming) could be laughing because it’s kind of a ridiculous reaction to getting a different gift from what you were expecting. These parents should probably teach them how to graciously accept a gift they don’t like, though.
Again, I’m just looking for more here. This isn’t to be incendiary, this is an attempt to understand.
This is so messed up.
They were also totally getting cues from their aunt’s tone of voice that that was the right reaction. Their tone was “this is a joke- it’s not a good present” not “this is a normal present”. Ugh, racism.
Okay, but think about it rationally.
First of all, how would these children have the same reaction when opening the gifts for a second time? They don’t seem like they would be talented enough actors to be able to do that.
Second, why would a parent/family member take a video of a child if they give them a gift that the children didn’t ask for? Typically, I think the parent/aunt/uncle would be somewhat embarrassed and sad that they couldn’t give the child what they wanted. Why would they then laugh about it? It would be cruel to the children.
Instead, it’s clear that the parent taking the video is laughing at the fact that the children are visibly upset when looking at the color of the doll’s skin.
The older one seems to be able to accept a gift graciously, even if it’s not what she wanted, since she doesn’t erupt into tears when she sees the doll. But she is visibly uncomfortable and doesn’t know how to say that she doesn’t like it because it’s black.
There is no other way to try and frame it.
Thanks Karen. You’re absolutely right. How much more internet do I have to do to realize so much is deliberate ill intent… :'(
Eh. I obviously don’t think racism doesn’t exist or anything, I just think that this particular case is a reach.
I’m posting this to you in good faith and compassion – to help you realize what you are doing when you say things like that:
http://www.shakesville.com/2013/08/occams-big-paisley-tie.html
You’re probably going to have to accept the lived experiences of the writer and numerous posters then. It’s really obvious to me and many people that what Jenn is describing is exactly what’s going on. Just like it’s really obvious to me that what you are doing is exactly what happens to most PoC when they point out an act of racism. It would really benefit you to read Heather’s link above.
Yeah, my (white) son is in love with his Mom’s American Girl Addy doll (black). Treats her like his girlfriend, cuddles her, carries her around like she’s made of glass. I can’t imagine the day that he’d look at her with revulsion. I hate these prank videos.
Listen, though. I’m white-looking, but I’m Mexican. I pass, but I’m gay. I’m Jewish. I’m a woman, and a feminist. Perhaps I don’t understand the particular struggles faced by people of color, but I do think it’s dangerous when we start saying, “this is racist/misogynistic/anti-Semitic/homophobic because I say so and I’m a person of color/woman/Jew/LGBT”. I think it’s unfortunate that most of the time we can’t have a discussion because as soon as you present a dissenting opinion, lots of people jump on you and call you names. I’m not saying that’s what’s happening here, and I’ll take your word for it on this particular issue, but, for example, when Lily Allen came out with “Hard Out Here”, I read a number of articles that claimed she was somehow appropriating and mocking black culture by a) producing a hip hop-like song and video, and b) having black women twerk in said video. For (a), if we don’t allow artists to produce the music they want to simply because it’s not “theirs”, does this not just create more of a divide and lead back to segregation? It’s one thing to mock; it’s quite another to draw inspiration and love. As for (b), this is simply ridiculous. Yes, there are black women in her video. There are also white women. There’s also her older man producer or whatever he’s supposed to be. This ties back into (a), because if she didn’t have any people of color in her video, then it would be racist – but somehow having them in it also makes it racist.
All I’m saying is that it’s important to think critically and see things for what they are, not what we want them to be.
My daughter has dolls of all different skin colors, but the one time I got seriously angry about her receiving a black doll was when she opened it, was delighted but the gift giver was laughing anyway. I felt like it was given to her as a racist joke, and I hated that they were using her as a pawn in their punch line. Of course they didn’t get the reaction they wanted, but that didn’t matter to them they were too busy laughing with each other to notice that she loved it, They thought they were clever so that was all that mattered. Which also upset me as well because you shouldn’t get a child a joke gift to entertain yourself whether they’ll love it or not.
I am aware of the finding that most children across a wide racial spectrum show marked preference for white dolls. I’m not dismissing the problem when I say I consider I believe this to be entirely due to the efforts of the toy industry and their advertising companies. I welcome the recent announcement by Mattel that their Barbie dolls will henceforth be made with multiple racial features and a wider spectrum of body types. However, I question just how much race really plays into this disturbing video. Consider my own story.
When I was about the age of the younger girl a relative gave me a baby doll as a gift. I wasn’t a tomboy (as the term was used back in the day) but I wasn’t a baby doll lover either. In fact, I hated them, infinitely preferring adult dolls in beautiful gowns. I thought the doll was ugly, it smelled bad and to my mind every feature from the deformed-looking, dimpled knees to the tinny, whiny “Ma-ma” that came out of a speaker in its company-stamped back was like a slap in the face. Out of severe disappointment, My five-year-old self reacted much like the child in the video. Note please, there was no color issue here. Both the doll and I were white. It wasn’t the color of the doll (or even it’s sulfuric, rotten egg smell) it was disappointment to be given a toy I actively disliked and being expected to show appreciation that was too much for my child-emotions.
At this age I don’t think the girls know much about race at all. Whatever they may have been told or shown, I have my doubts that they really know WHAT they mean. I say this because of another event in my own life. I worked in a legal office. An African American child was brought by her mother once to give testimony. While I waited with them I talked with the child and played with her for a while to keep her amused until her turn was called. In the course of the conversation she made several anti-white comments. I asked her if she thought all whites were like that. She said yes. I asked her if she would talk to a white person or play with them. No, she replied, she wouldn’t. When she was called to go she turned and gave me a big hug and a kiss. Clearly the child had no idea she had been talking to and playing with a white person. She had been parroting words and attitudes that were common in her environment.
That is why I think the children in this video were set up. The mystery is: Why? What for? Why would someone make a video presenting two little girls as racists? Why post publicly it when it will clearly offend so many viewers?
One thing that stands out is the adult voices in the background. A woman’s voice (their mother?) tells the girls to open the gifts. She isn’t encouraging or loving. Her voice is at once brittle and hard. She’s bullying. Then there is the laughter of an unknown number of adults. It is not a good laughter, but the sneering sound that comes from a shared inside joke. I would need to see the events both before and after this video to make a solid response, but while the adults filming the video are not visible to us, the children can see them clearly. Can anybody tell me if the children are looking at amused, belittling adult faces? Certainly the adult voices and laughter are not loving or supportive.
I think we may be placing blame in the wrong place. The children are innocent. It is the adults who deserve our censure.
And for the record–those African-American dolls are every bit as ugly as the hideous white baby doll I got 63 years ago.
Food for thought when so much vital information is missing.